A very good read:
A lot of people like to think they are “non-violent.” Generally, 
people claim to “abhor” the use of violence, and violence is viewed 
negatively by most folks. Many fail to differentiate between just and 
unjust violence. Some especially vain, self-righteous types like to 
think they have risen above the nasty, violent cultures of their 
ancestors. They say that “violence isn’t the answer.” They say that 
“violence doesn’t solve anything.”
They’re wrong. Every one of them relies on violence, every single day.
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Our complex society relies on proxy violence to the extent that many 
average people in the private sector can wander through life without 
really having to understand or think deeply about violence, because we 
are removed from it. We can afford to perceive it as a distant, abstract
 problem to be solved through high-minded strategy and social 
programming. When violence comes knocking, we simply make a call, and 
the police come to “stop” the violence. Few civilians really take the 
time to think that what we are essentially doing is paying an armed band
 protection money to come and do orderly violence on our behalf. 
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